Mary Frisenda, 87, of Jackson passed away Wednesday, March 4, 2026. Born in New York, NY, she resided in Queens, NY before moving to Jackson in 1969. Mary was a parishioner of St. Veronica R.C. Church, Howell Twp.
Mary was a great cook and enjoyed painting ceramics. She also had a love for shopping and fashion. Mary loved her family dearly, especially her grandchildren.
Mary was predeceased by her husband Frank in 2005 and also her sister, Anna Napoli, and two brothers, Daniel LaRoma and Tony LaRoma. Mary is survived by her sons, Frank and his wife, Linda of Davie, FL, Philip and his wife, Bernadette of Mosheim, TN, her daughter, Maria Frisenda-Gonzalez and her fiancé Larry Woods of Jackson, her sisters, Rose Zingaro of Jackson, Georgette Sciara of Staten Island, NY, Theresa LaRoma of Howell, and five grandchildren, Frank, Jonathan, Elizabeth, Isabella, and Anthony.
Visitation 4-7pm Friday, March 13, 2026, at DeGraff Lakehurst Funeral Home, 119 Union Ave., Lakehurst. Funeral Mass 10:30am Saturday, March 14, 2026, at St. Mary of the Lake R.C. Church, 43 Madison Ave., Lakewood with burial to follow at St. Mary of the Lake Cemetery, 1 Honey Locust Dr., Lakewood.
Thank you for all that information.
Mary had such big loving family!
I knew Mary from when we volunteered at a local Jackson thrift store, Kimble Closet. She was an incredible hard worker making the store look beautiful and laughing with all us girls. I think of her often with the warmest thoughts❤️
my prayers for your soul and with the family diana
Although we did not know Mary, we are good friends with Frank and Linda. We want to express our condolences to the entire family for the loss of their mother, sister and grandma. May she rest easy now in the loving arms of our Lord.
Sincerely, Richard and Judy Mundy
Dear Mary:
Thank you for being part of our family.
We will always remember your friendships and affection.
Rest in Peace.
We love you, Julio, Debbie and Daniel from Miami, FL
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May she rest in eternal peace. The Lombardi”s
Our Moms loved us before we were born. It’s now up to us to love them as they watch over us in their heavenly peace. We’ll never stop missing them. We’ll never stop loving them. Rest in peace, Mary.
We did not know Mary, but however, we know her son Frank and daughter-in-law Linda. I wish to send condolences from myself and my family to Frank Linda and the rest of the family. May Mary rest in peace! Our prayers and big hugs sent to Frank, Linda, and the family. May God bless each of you during this difficult time.
Good bye, my Aunt Mary. The angels will welcome you to your new home.
When I was a young child, my cool uncle announced that he was bringing home his Bebee, to meet the family. My cousins and l were so excited to meet a Bebee.
In walked a beautiful, sweet, smiling, petite lady. She was loved on day one. She always brought us gifts. On my first holy communion, she gave me a gold praying hands necklace, and on the reverse side was ,the Serenity Prayer, I still have and cherish that gift and try to live it’s message.
Good Bye, Be Careful, and I Love you!
Aunt Mary
What a wonderful woman Mary was ..
She always remains made everyone feel loved and appreciated..
It’s been years since I saw her last but she will remain in my heart forever
Rest easy Mary
On behalf of my family, we express our condolences and much love to your family. I always enjoyed Mary’s company when I visited my sister-in-law Maria and family. Mary was witty, edgy in a fun & loving way and always hosting with pleasure. She reminded me of Anne Bancroft, with her star quality and always dolled up; hence, your chosen photo is so appropriate. Sad I did not get to see more of you Mary, may you rest in peace. I know you are in heaven. God bless you and your family. With love, Marisol & family